还是觉得这样一部哭得我头痛眼肿的电影值得写一篇走心的长评。
同样感人的纪录片和虚构故事带给我的感受总是不太一样。看虚构故事时,即使哭得稀里哗啦,还是会觉得那是作者为了制造冲突丰富情节而刻意制造的,现实不会那么惊天地泣鬼神,毕竟艺术高于生活。所以在看纪录片时,那些真实发生的矛盾,对抗,戏剧性的情节,会让我更加震撼,甚至难以接受。原来世界真的没有自己想象那样简单善良。
给这部电影加标签的时候,有三个标签在我眼里是碍眼的,“同性” “同性恋” “gay”
❤《BRIDEGROOM》❤
1.Tap,tap,tap.=I love you.
2.His name was Tom,and he was my life. –Shane
3.And it's sad,but I really think that,if more people would give me a chance to be their friend,I can show them that,it's just cause I'm not exactly like them,but I'm still a good person. –Shane
4.Alao,on some level,I must have believed that,somehow,someday, there's gonna be someone out there,who's gonna love me for me. –Shane
—Shane,you make me feel like the luckiest guy alive.
—We should think about all the things we want to do together.Like swimming in the ocean.
—Staying home and watching movies all day when it rains.
—Buying a house.And adopting a dog.
—And a kid.
—Teaching him how to ride a bike.
—Driving him to his first day of school.
—All of us sitting at the table with the dog at our feet waiting for us to drop food.
Shane和Tom在一起六年,Tom在2011年5月7日由屋顶意外坠落去世,而Shane被禁止出席Tom的葬礼,无法见他最后一面,因为他不是Tom的“家人”,他们的关系得不到法律认可,他也没有权利处理他的遗物。
《Bridegroom》这部记录片就是因为这样一个故事促成的。从Shane和Tom的成长环境开始,采访他们故乡的朋友,一直到他们相遇,共同生活,以及Tom去世后的Shane,中间穿插着shane拍摄的各种录像,他们互相发给对方的短信。
Shane担心anti-homo,在公共场合不会和Tom有亲密的动作,在桌子上敲三下tap,tap ,tap, 这是他们之间的密码,表示我爱你。他们躲在Shane家的柜子里,在Shane的父亲回来时从里面跳出来,大声喊“surprise。”
还有很多温暖动人的镜头,彼此长久的陪伴。
"You know there's a part of me that thinks maybe I should I tell someone or maybe I should show someone ,you know ,how I'm really feeling instead of telling everyone I'm ok.And I'm not ok." 看到电影的第66分钟,失去原来是这么痛苦的事。
Tom,并没有变成Shane心里的一颗刺
“再见,我的新郎”Tom's stuff
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