三年前面试，面试官反复问我为什么不怕吵架，认为我隐瞒了真实的样子。作为天生不具备和气生财情商的人，当时我无法理解她的不理解，今天突然明白了。并不是和所有人吵架都毫无顾忌，我还是害怕和爸妈吵的，可能因为潜意识里觉得吵架就意味着关系的破裂和走向终结。
回头想想，除了工作中的理直气壮据理力争，好像很少和人真正大吵过，有过的那几次，基本都是不可逆的疏远甚至绝交。咨询师曾问我，是不是不相信爸妈会在乎我超过他们希望我成为的样子，我说是。我当然知道他们爱我
dede觉得不是简单的一个让大家嘲笑的纸片人角色，好比简·爱里罗切斯特关在楼上的疯妻子，背后包含着无数的心酸与苦楚
#06
Jay: We all struggle with limitations... Some we're willing to accept... And some we're not. It's never too late to grow in life.
#07
Manny: He's learning to dance, but he's just to tense.
Jay: It's not working out.
Manny: 'cause you're not letting go.
Jay: I'm trying. Don't you think I want to be all smooth and make your mom happy out there? But I just can't do it, that's all.
Manny: Jay, I'm not giving up on you.
Mitchell: Okay. Hey, Manny, would you give us a second? Thanks. Dad, look, I-I know this is weird, but you and I are a lot alike. We're self-conscious, okay? So, um, here. Just...
Jay: The hell is this?
Mitchell: It's just something that some people take at clubs to, you know, loosen up.
Jay: You take this?
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